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    How To Shop With Kids: Reader Question

    I received the following question from Tammy.

    I was wondering if you had tips for shopping with kids – especially in the checkout.

    I just started price matching and although my savings are great, I just realized that last week at Walmart there was a major error on my bill. Bagels @ $3.29, price matched at $1.79 but cashier entered $4.97.

    With the kids it is tough to get prices and make sure the prices are entered correctly.

    Shopping with little ones can be a challenge, but it’s certainly possible to do so without someone having a meltdown.

    Here are my tips for shopping with young children.

    1. Find child care.

    I know, I know. This post is supposed to be about shopping WITH children. However, I just wanted to stress how much easier shopping is when you’re alone. If you can’t seem to find someone to watch your children while you shop, that’s okay. There are still ways you can shop peacefully.

    2. Bring snacks.

    This is something that we have always done with Elliott and it works very well at keeping him distracted. Make sure you have a few different types of snacks, because if you don’t, it is possible that they will get bored of the snack you have chosen. If you have an infant that is not yet eating solid food, I suggest bringing a few small toys instead. These items are especially important in the checkout line.

    3. Shop with a list.

    I always recommend shopping with a list for any type of shopping that you need to do because it’s not only a money saver, but a time saver as well – and when you’re shopping with children, the sooner you are finished shopping, the better.

    4. Tell them “no” before you shop.

    Make sure that your child knows why you are going into the store before you do so. Show them your list and let them know that you will only be buying the items you have on there and nothing more. This usually helps with the “Can I have this?! Can I have this?!” issue in the store.

    5. Let them help.

    I’ve noticed that Elliott is really only upset when I don’t let him help with the shopping and just strap him into the seat of the grocery cart. If I let him walk around and get the items that I need off of the shelves for me, he’s usually very happy, quiet and cooperative. It takes a bit longer to shop this way, so I don’t recommend it if you’re in a hurry, but if you have the time, try letting your child help you collect the grocery items and put them into the cart.

    6. Give rewards/praise.

    If your children behave well while you are shopping, always remember to praise them. A simple “thank you for being so well behaved” is all that’s necessary, but if they were exceptionally good, give them a small treat. I usually have a cookie or two tucked away in my purse that I will give to Elliott if he was a good boy in the store.

    Remember, children don’t often like to sit still for long periods of time, so don’t expect them to endure an hour long shopping trip stuck in a grocery cart.

    Involve them in what you are doing and they are likely to be much more well-behaved.

    Do you have any tips for shopping with young children?

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    How To Shop With Kids: Reader Question

    1. Thank you so much for all of your tips, everyone! Some good ideas that I never thought of and will be trying out. :)

    2. teachermum says:

      I really don’t remember having much trouble with my kids shopping, and I usually did it during the day with them. If I had a long list ie many stops for loss leaders (we are talking over 20 years ago, no one pricematched!) I might have gone after supper when dh was home from work.

      I highly recommend NOT getting into the habit of buying them something every time you shop with them. Just sets up for temper tantrums when you might say no down the road. A big treat at our little grocery store (yes several things cost more, but it was much closer and smaller-I could get through quite quickly) was a cheese stick. Bread dough with cheddar mixed in and on top in a stick more than a food long. All of .35! Apparently it was “bigger” than the pretzel shape made from the same sticks…the kids never wanted the “small” pretzels! It was great to shop just before lunch as the kids would get one from the bakery just before checkout and they just needed some fruit when they got home to complete lunch.

      I think it is very important to establish behaviour rules before setting out and stick to them always. Mine would occasionally ask for things, but were never grumpy if I said no. Their big treat was picking out a box of “crap” cereal…they could get whatever they wanted as long as it was under $3…and even now, that rarely happens!!! But they sure thought they got away with something!!! They were very attentive down that aisle and learned to read tags quickly! Often they ate it as a dry snack.

    3. Samantha says:

      Make it an adventure! Take a brown paper bag and tell them their mission is to fill their bags with coupons! Two birds with one stone. 1. Child is totally busy 2. You find coupons that are hidden at their level 3. Your kids learn to coupon early!! Good luck. My three love it and they are usually so busy organizing at the checkout I have tonnes of time!!

    4. Jan M says:

      You missed another good one, wear your baby!
      When I have to shop with one two or all three of mine the first thing I do is strap my 3 yr old on my back. She can’t get into anything up there then I can either have my 8 year old push my 1 yr old in the stroller or put my one year old in the cart with some toys and if they get bored we switch and 1 yr old gies on my back or chest if she wants to nurse and 3 yr old goes in the cart. I try to limit te time my three ear old spend int he art though because she likes to open boxes and drop glass bottles out of the cart…….. She’s cute but yep she’s a handful :)

    5. mary says:

      I give my kids stickers/paper pads & SNACKS….esp during checkout, the kids get a box of raisins and or drinks.

    6. Kirsty Lavigne says:

      I agree with all of the tips. The other thing I do with my 2 1/2 year old is, when he asks for something (that is not on sale), I tell him we can’t get it because it is not on sale. He now knows to look for sale signs. I also let him choose which flavour of the item (juice, crackers, etc) that I have on my list to buy. We usually end up having a couple of discussions every shopping trip about what is on sale and what isn’t and which items we should get. He seems to enjoy helping and it certainly makes the trip easier.

    7. Betty says:

      I agree with all of the above. I found giving them responsibility (my own seemed to crave it when they were little), they get confidence in themselves & are more willing to help out.

      I also used to try & grocery shop around their schedules (work around nap times, meal times, etc.) so that hopefully there won’t be a melt down cuz they’re tired, hungry, etc. When they are tired, it makes shopping harder on both mother & child(ren). I also used to find cashiers willing to take Moms & children quicker so that you could get the kids out quicker with no meltdowns (don’t know if that’s true or not anymore but it was when my children were small). Good luck!!

    8. bratnic says:

      If I can’t watch the till (because of the kids, loading things onto the till, etc) while things are being rung up, I pull the cart off to the side after I’ve paid and go through the receipt before I leave the store. The kids are pretty good though at Superstore because they know once we get to the bakery, they’ll get a free cookie.

    9. Eeyah says:

      My momma used to give us coupons and send us to find the item….it was usually cereal or something easily identifiable to us (cookies or snacks). I can recall pushing the little kiddie shopping cart up and down the aisle’s “shopping” made me and my sis feel very grown up. And if we were good – and by good I mean EXCELLENT LITTLE ANGLES, then while mom was in the line up we could go to the bakery and get a cookie.

    10. Theresa says:

      When I was a kid, my mom never took us down the “junk food aisle”. It was so ingrained in our brains that we would never ask. My mom always took us shopping and told us before we left that there were no treats that day. My mom was the master at having her kids behave in public. She just had to look at us a certain way and we behaved :)

      That being said, I can’t seem to pull off what she did. I go shopping when the kids are at school. It is the only way I can stay on budget and not feel like crying at the end of it all. LOL!

    11. Shannon says:

      Suckers :) I know it isn’t the best option but our kids never get candy so when they get a sucker they are happy little muchkins. Best thing when you are trying to concentrate.

    12. Lesley B. says:

      When we’re in a large place like Walmart, I also find it helps when their father takes them to another area of the store (toys, books, or just for a walk in the store) so I can finish the groceries alone :)

    13. Heather says:

      give the kids their own list with pictures from the flyers. they can help watch for the items from the cart or if old enough to be independant,and safe they can search themselves

    14. Di says:

      All of the above are great. As a mom of three (now teens, who are 16 months and 23 months apart, yes I shopped with 3 under 4) who had no choice but to shop with my kids most of the time. I used it as an education experience.. taught them to read packages, match things (cans, boxes, colours etc…) but the best by far thing was teaching them before we left home that it was not cool to beg for things, add things to the cart, etc while shopping, and I taught them that if they obeyed those rules and were happy then at the end of the trip I would get them a treat of their choice (with price restrictions…. ) often it was to share something out of the candy dispensers. It worked like a charm and I rarely had an issue. Now if they come they get the cart money – joke is on them often because I have tokens for the cart, 2 of the 3 still are very willing to go grocery shopping – I’d say that is pretty good for teens.
      Stay strong all of you out there with young ones.. it is not easy, but it is rewarding.

    15. Kim Krabbendam says:

      An Idea to make finding Childcare easier is a kid swap, I swa my kids once a week with 2 friends so one week I have 6-8 kids and then I have 2 weeks off while they take a turn. We do it from 9-12 and then the hosting mom has lunch ready when we get back, eat lunch and then take the kids home for naps. It’s really nice to get all that running around you don’t do because it’s not worth it if you have to pack 3 kids in and out of the car.

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